Growing up as a gay boy in a small town, you get used to people saying bad things pretty quickly.
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When I was a child, a member of staff at Wood End Assessment Centre [a former children’s home in Wigan] bellowed: “He copies them poems off of Bob Marley records.”
Edward Bond, the playwright, said I was like a turd flowing on the effluent of British culture.
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View profile →Falling off the stage and on to the pianist during the opening number in the Mother Goose pantomime at the Citizens theatre in Glasgow.
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Not being able to fend for myself and being a burden to others.
We’re not here for long so don’t be wreaking havoc along the way.
An inability to get myself to bed at a reasonable hour.
My penchant for having just one too many.
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