I can be a people-pleaser, to the detriment of my own needs sometimes.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, July 2014 source ↗
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View all 243 →I can’t stand the way my voice will crack if I’m making a speech. I hate public speaking and the emotion it dredges up.
Self-loathing that rises to the level of deploring.
Forgetting. Or, worse yet, not recognizing who my real friends are.
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View profile →My grandson, for taking such wonderful care of me in my old age.
Not getting into heaven.
Living in the Caribbean during the 60s and 70s with such lovely people.
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