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What is the most overrated virtue?

Barack Obama

44th President of the United States, 2009–2017; United States Senator from Illinois 2005–2008

Security. People naturally resist change in our personal lives.

Recorded · ABC News · 2011

Seth Godin

Author and marketer; founder of Yoyodyne and Squidoo

I think authenticity is a crock, and I think authenticity is overrated and talked about far too much. The problem with authenticity is it’s selfish.

Recorded · The Tim Ferriss Show · 2020

Amartya Sen

Economist and philosopher; laureate of the Sveriges Riksbank Prize in Economic Sciences, 1998

This was a co-educational school, with many progressive features.

Recorded · Nobel Prize Outreach · 1998

Theodore Roosevelt

26th President of the United States, 1901–1909; Governor of New York 1899–1900; Assistant Secretary of the Navy 1897–1898

Shame on the man of cultivated taste who permits refinement to develop into a fastidiousness that unfits him for doing the rough work of a workaday world!

Recorded · The American Presidency Project, University of California Santa Barbara · 1910

Wisława Szymborska

Poet and essayist; Nobel laureate in Literature, 1996

All sorts of torturers, dictators, fanatics, and demagogues struggling for power by way of a few loudly shouted slogans also enjoy their jobs, and they too perform their duties with…

Recorded · The Nobel Foundation (nobelprize.org) · 1996

Eleanor Roosevelt

First Lady of the United States 1933–1945; United States Delegate to the United Nations General Assembly 1945–1952; Chair of the UN Commission on Human Rights 1946–1951

Tolerance ought only to be a preliminary step which allows us to get to know other people, and which prevents us from setting up bars, just because they may be of a different race or…

Recorded · Eleanor Roosevelt Papers Project, The George Washington University · 1943

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What is the hardest thing that has happened to you, and what did you carry out of it?

Nobu Matsuhisa

Chef and restaurateur

I moved to Argentina, then back to Tokyo and then to Anchorage, in Alaska, where I ran a restaurant. After 50 days the restaurant burnt down – an electrical fire. I lost my dream.

Recorded · The Observer / The Guardian · 2025

David Oyelowo

Actor, director and producer

God has never let me down. He’s a key factor in guiding my decisions and feeling safe within them. My wife and I suffered three miscarriages, one of them quite late in the pregnancy.

Recorded · The Observer / The Guardian · 2025

Willie Mays

Baseball centre fielder; twice National League Most Valuable Player

I was the first black in that particular league. And, we played in a town called Hagerstown, Maryland. ...

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 1996

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What is something everyone in your world agrees about that you think is wrong?

Jocelyn Bell Burnell

Radio astronomer; discoverer of pulsars

The next generation of telescopes will see millions of events per night with computers that sift through huge amounts of data.

Recorded · University of Cambridge · 2020

Desmond Tutu

Anglican Archbishop of Cape Town; chair of South Africa’s Truth and Reconciliation Commission; Nobel Peace Prize, 1984

Remember that the resentment and the anger leveled at the United States is not leveled against Americans as Americans.

Recorded · Academy of Achievement

David Vélez

Co-founder and chief executive of Nubank

I always say the Nubank story was very unlikely. It was a very low probability event. Again. We were going after these very big incumbent banks.

Recorded · Goldman Sachs (official event transcript)

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What are you unwilling to optimise?

Yvon Chouinard

Founder of Patagonia

One option was to sell Patagonia and donate all the money. But we couldn't be sure a new owner would maintain our values or keep our team of people around the world employed.

Recorded · Patagonia · 2022

Jessye Norman

Operatic soprano and recitalist

I want to be able to express, I want to be able to communicate, and I want to be able to understand what it is I’m doing, and I want the people whose language it is to understand what I’m…

Recorded · Academy of Achievement (achievement.org)

Alice Waters

Chef, restaurateur and food activist

There’s no such thing as cheap food. It can be affordable, but it can never be cheap.

Recorded · Earth Island Journal · 2015

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