I think I value the same things everyone does—loyalty, a sense of humor, the ability to make campaign contributions.
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Originally asked
Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire
A fixed Vanity Fair Proust Questionnaire item asked across its three-decade archive, with independent variants in friendship and profile interviews.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
That they want to be with me.
The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 20 September 2016 source ↗
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John Malkovich
Actor
That they’re kind, trustworthy, smart, and can hear and communicate and aren’t afraid to do so.
Being there for each other during good times and bad.
Elmore Leonard
Novelist and screenwriter
That they get it.
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