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What lesson has mattered most in your life?

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Oliver Sacks

Neurologist and writer

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And now, weak, short of breath, my once-firm muscles melted away by cancer, I find my thoughts, increasingly, not on the supernatural or spiritual, but on what is meant by living a good and worthwhile life — achieving a sense of peace within oneself. I find my thoughts drifting to the Sabbath, the day of rest, the seventh day of the week, and perhaps the seventh day of one’s life as well, when one can feel that one’s work is done, and one may, in good conscience, rest.

The New York Times, Sunday Review, 14 August 2015 source ↗

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Harlan Coben American author
We are too often advised to live life to the fullest. That’s too much pressure. The key is to find joy and poignancy in the quiet and mundane. Life is lived between the so-called big moments.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 3 August 2024 source ↗
Clive Myrie British journalist, newsreader, and presenter
Be kind and do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 8 June 2024 source ↗

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Question What are you still hoping to finish? Death & what remains
On the contrary, I feel intensely alive, and I want and hope in the time that remains to deepen my friendships, to say farewell to those I love, to write more, to travel if I have the strength, to achieve new levels of understanding and insight. This will involve audacity, clarity and plain speaking; trying to straighten my accounts with the world. But there will be time, too, for some fun (and even some silliness, as well).
Recorded The New York Times, Op-Ed, 19 February 2015 source ↗
Question What kind of death would you consider a good one? Death & what remains
It was this celestial splendor that suddenly made me realize how little time, how little life, I had left. My sense of the heavens’ beauty, of eternity, was inseparably mixed for me with a sense of transience — and death. ... I told my friends Kate and Allen, “I would like to see such a sky again when I am dying.” “We’ll wheel you outside,” they said.
Recorded The New York Times, Sunday Review, 24 July 2015 source ↗
Question What has life taught you about being human? Values & belief
My generation is on the way out, and each death I have felt as an abruption, a tearing away of part of myself. There will be no one like us when we are gone, but then there is no one like anyone else, ever. When people die, they cannot be replaced. They leave holes that cannot be filled, for it is the fate — the genetic and neural fate — of every human being to be a unique individual, to find his own path, to live his own life, to die his own death.
Recorded The New York Times, Op-Ed, 19 February 2015 source ↗
Question Has knowing you will die changed how you live? Death & what remains
I feel a sudden clear focus and perspective. There is no time for anything inessential. I must focus on myself, my work and my friends. I shall no longer look at “NewsHour” every night. I shall no longer pay any attention to politics or arguments about global warming. This is not indifference but detachment — I still care deeply about the Middle East, about global warming, about growing inequality, but these are no longer my business; they belong to the future. I rejoice when I meet gifted young people — even the one who biopsied and diagnosed my metastases. I feel the future is in good hands.
Recorded The New York Times, Op-Ed, 19 February 2015 source ↗
Question Which book reshaped how you think, and in what way? Taste & recommendation
The first biography I read — I think the first scientific biography — was Madame Curie . And my mother, who was a surgeon, worked at the Marie Curie Hospital. She’d met Marie Curie, who was one of her great heroines. And reading the book, I think, was the first portrait of a scientist and the romance of a scientific life.
Recorded Academy of Achievement recorded interview, American Academy of Achievement, 17 June 2000 source ↗
Question Does the thought of dying frighten you? Death & what remains
I cannot pretend I am without fear. But my predominant feeling is one of gratitude. I have loved and been loved; I have been given much and I have given something in return; I have read and traveled and thought and written. I have had an intercourse with the world, the special intercourse of writers and readers. Above all, I have been a sentient being, a thinking animal, on this beautiful planet, and that in itself has been an enormous privilege and adventure.
Recorded The New York Times, Op-Ed, 19 February 2015 source ↗

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