It was a brilliant idea: You have no responsibility to live up to what other people think you ought to accomplish. I have no responsibility to be like they expect me to be.
How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success? Do you have a favourite failure?
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What is the thing you are best at that nobody watching can see?
Craft & work
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What does the first sixty minutes of your day look like?
Daily life
One setback after another, we shook it off and skated to the next opportunity. Each time, we gain skills and strengthen our character. No setback that comes our way doesn't look like an opportunity these days.
n/a, California Institute of Technology 130th Annual Commencement, 14 June 2024, NVIDIA Blog, 15 June 2024 source ↗
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Richard Feynman
Theoretical physicist; Nobel laureate in Physics, 1965
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Excerpt from “Surely You’re Joking, Mr. Feynman”, Engineering and Science / Caltech Magazine, 1985
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Sheryl Sandberg
Former chief operating officer of Facebook; founder of LeanIn.org
Day one of my first job out of college, my boss found out that I didn't know how to enter data into Lotus 1-2-3. That's a spreadsheet—ask your parents. His mouth dropped open and he said, ‘I can't believe you got this job without knowing that”—and then walked out of the room. I went home convinced that I was going to be fired. I thought I was terrible at everything… but it turns out I was only terrible at spreadsheets.
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University of California, Berkeley Commencement, Los Angeles Times, 14 May 2016
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Francis Collins
American physician-scientist
about 95% of the experiments we do are total failures, and that’s because we’re out there on the leading edge of what’s possible, and most of the time it isn’t quite possible.
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Academy of Achievement, Academy of Achievement interview, Bethesda, Maryland, 1 April 2000
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Larry Ellison
American businessman
Oh, absolutely. I think most overachievers are driven, not so much by the pursuit of success, but by the fear of failure. Unless failure gets very close and very nearby that fear doesn’t reach profound levels, but it drives us. It drives me to work very hard.
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Academy of Achievement, Academy of Achievement interview, San Francisco, California, 1 May 1997
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View profile →Of all of the things that I value most about my abilities, intelligence is not top of that list. My ability to endure pain and suffering, my ability to work on something for a very, very long period of time, my ability to handle setbacks and see the opportunity just around the corner I consider to be my superpowers, and I hope they're yours.
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California Institute of Technology 130th Annual Commencement, YouTube (recording of the Caltech commencement address), 14 June 2024
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I begin each morning, I do every single morning exactly the same way, I begin each morning by doing my highest priority work first. I have a very clear priority list and I start from the highest priority work first. Before I even get to work, my day is already a success. I've already completed my most important work and can dedicate my day to helping others.
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California Institute of Technology 130th Annual Commencement, The Singju Post, 14 June 2024
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